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You deserve to feel fulfilled — at work and at home.

You’re used to giving, and your life looks pretty amazing. BUT …

After giving to everyone else in your life, you may have lost sight of a simple truth:

YOU deserve happiness, too.
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You’re accomplished. You’re capable.

 

From the outside, everything looks right.

 

But inside, a quiet question keeps surfacing:

“Is this really it?”

 

You go to work. You go home. You rinse, repeat.

It’s the familiar rhythm of success — and yet, it doesn’t feel as good as it should.

 

Not bad. Just not enough.

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You don’t need another productivity hack or spa day.

You need to trust yourself again.

To tune in.

To realize what matters most.

To unlearn the habits that keep you stuck.

To strengthen your confidence.

To take the lead — in your life and career.

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Coaching That Meets You Where You Are

Whether you need space to reflect deeply or support in real time, there’s a path for you:

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Clients often come to coaching feeling overextended, uncertain, or unfulfilled.

They leave with a renewed sense of clarity, purpose, and confidence.

 

You’ll learn to:
  • Make clear, grounded decisions
  • Lead without burning out
  • Set and maintain healthy boundaries
  • Reconnect with joy and fulfillment
  • Navigate transitions with calm and courage
  • Take bold action with conviction

Hundreds of ambitious women have chosen to step out of “fine” and into fulfilled.

You’re ready. It’s your time. Don’t wait another day … you deserve to feel happy, now.

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Hi there, I'm Vicki Abelson—

I help executives feel fulfilled, confident, & intentional at work & at home. 

You are a whole person and you deserve whole person support. 

My mission has always been, in the different stages of my career, to help people feel like they were the best version of themselves. 

This means different things for different people and a one size approach rarely works. 

This is why I created The Defined Leader. I wanted to provide leaders and their team the custom tools they need to not only lead effectively, but to also do so without burnout, overwhelm, or self doubt. 

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What’s Your Leadership Energy Type?

You’re accomplished. Respected. Holding it all together — most days.

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